We can consider ourselves fortunate to encounter individuals
in our life with whom we develop a
special relationship.Miles may separate us -- time may pass -- but
a bond remains.Highly valued are the rare
opportunities to actually spend time with one another, but we augment with occasional
contact via other means.Always
present is the knowledge of that caring person still being present in our
life.And then comes the day when some of that changes.
First thing one morning this past week, unwelcome news greeted
me when I answered the phone.I was
just awakening, so was unprepared to process the information that such a
special friend’s daughter phoned to impart.Telling me how much my friendship had been valued, she ultimately
revealed her mother had not awakened one morning after retiring the night
before.
Her mother and I had reminisced on the phone several months
earlier.I’d been thinking of her and
planning to call her again in this new year now that the holiday rush was
past.I knew she had a large and very
attentive family nearby, so felt her days would have been activity-filled, possibly
tiring, or at least as busy as she could tolerate, given her declining health.
The last time we had actually
seen one another was in July of 2006.I
had been in town for a short time where we first met and finally was able to
phone her before my departure flight.She surprised me by coming to the airport where my hour ‘s wait for boarding
allowed us special moments together to talk about so much in so little time. So many years had passed since we last saw one
another but she appeared just as vivacious and attractive as I had remembered
her.
Since learning of her death, thoughts of her keep entering
my mind.I know she had a full rich
life, but her time ran out at 94 years.
“Ms. Cummins was born Ethel
Mae Thompson ... By the time she was 15, she was singing in nightclubs in
central Ohio. That’s where the [New Yorker] hotel’s bandleader, Bernie Cummins,
on tour with his orchestra The New Yorkers, found her and signed her up. “I
wasn’t allowed to date anyone in the band, so I married the bandleader’s
brother,” she explained.” as reported
in The Morning News.
When they toured the country,
after starting in Akron, Ohio, one frequent performance location was at
"Pappy's Showland" located between Dallas and Ft. Worth, Texas.The orchestra had played all the famous NYC
hotels along Park Ave., 5th Ave. for dinner and dancing including The New
Yorker.
This historic New Yorker Hotel had a 75th
Anniversary in December 2005 to which Jeanne was invited to participate in the
festivities since she had been the house singer with the band. Those years later, she and
her husband, Walter, decided to settle in our Midwest Ohio capitol, Columbus, Ohio, leaving NYC
and the touring band routine behind to raise their family.
Music was evolving into a
quite different style from the twenties music, while Jeanne was singing with
the band. It wasn't until the late 1950's that I met her as the family was
growing and the road tours had long since stopped. I was young and single, delighted to visit
their home for moonlight ice skating on a frozen pond, thanks to her daughter
loaning me her skates. A nearby bonfire provided warmth when the winter's chill
penetrated our woolen wear. Here's a video compilation for Jeanne's 90th birthday that includes photos of the TV shows casts including the band.
Jeanne was the popular
vocalist on the live audience participation television talk show with which I was
associated at WLW-C. Her appeal to the viewing
and studio audience was such that even when the TV show’s host changed, first to
actor, Dean Miller (a regular on a popular network sitcom TV series “December
Bride”) she continued as a show vocalist. Then there was Nick Clooney hosting for a while. His son, George, was just a budding boy who, I've been told on good authority, was not shy about sharing his intent to be an entertainment star some day. He may have reached his prophetic goal.
Jeanne’s talents were in demand for the show’s next and fourth reincarnation with a locally popular TV personality
as host, Spook Beckman.This rare video of her impromptu
singing (B&W but the show broadcast in color) reveals her vocal skills and sensitivity
but quirky sense of humor.The host spontaneously relating her song's title to a personal event in her life went a bit awry. She had been the recipient of a small
inheritance from a woman who died at age 94, but once she began to sing Jeanne found
the lyrics of the song not quite appropriate.This is a good example of why live TV can be so entertaining, but also
risky.
I always delighted in listening to the several decades of
standards Jeanne sang, but especially remembered her as epitomizing the theme song
and title “Happy Face” of a children’s TV show she created on which Ienjoyed working with her.“Put
On A Happy Face” lyrics from the Broadway show “Bye Bye Birdie” were so
characteristic of Jeanne’s good humor and positive outlook on life.
I wish there was a
recording of Jeanne singing this song, but here are Dick VanDyke and Janet
Leigh.
“Spread sunshine all over the place” is exactly what Jeanne
did with her presence and her song vocalizations.
You will be missed, Jeanne, but remembered for the pleasure your lovely sensitive lyric interpretations gave others -- also with love and affection. RIP
We’re off on another whirlwind year of who knows what in
this unpredictable life we lead.Taking
stock of what it looks like for me, I’m just continuing to batten down the
hatches, as the saying goes, to stay afloat wherever events lead and hope for
the best.
A review of the recent holiday calm for me included sending
and receiving fewer greeting cards than the previous year. I still
enjoy the letters updating past year events, learning of everyone’s well-being
and sharing information regarding our families which often include photos.
Sadly, there are fewer to whom I sent my holiday letter
because they departed this life during the preceding year – a major negative
about aging.Now, I’m left to wonder about the status of
those who didn’t write with numerous explanations possible.
Much like the rest of you, I’ve been absorbing what is happening
around our world for some hint of what might be expected in 2019.Economic
issues concern us all as we wonder what might the stock market’s acrobatics portend?China is exploring the far side of the moon,
so what implications might that have? Then, there are all those other countries I won't name.
Environmental concerns continue with devastating weather
conditions uprooting people’s lives, others flee oppression in some countries
with resulting challenges for other communities where they seek refuge.That’s only a smattering of the humanitarian
issues too many people face.We’re not
immune in the U.S.A. to nature’s whims or to our own continent’s largely South
American refugees seeking asylum in our country.
Their doing so has been made unbelievably complicated by our
Administration whose leader chose, beginning when he was a candidate, to instill
in our general population an excessive fear of different others from the
traditional ones like him -- as though we did not already have effective protective
screening systems in place receiving continuous technological updating for use with those seeking admittance to our country.
Implying previous security inadequacy to then claim increased
terrorist threat has created a divisive political state.Much more meaningful and unifying would be
addressing how best to secure our nation’s border by implementing long ago bipartisan
determined actions that also have provisions for using funds in a financially reasonable manner.
Our leader and many of those elected to represent the
citizens continue to demonstrate just how out of touch they are with the
majority of ordinary people’s wishes, much less their day-to-day financial
lives. These political leaders persist
in pursuing further destructive governing actions demonstrated by failure to
authorize selected government budgeted department funding.Consequently, affected government employee
wages are withheld though they must continue to work. Government legislators and our leaders continue to draw their salaries. U.S. Senators seem to have abandoned the
working population.They had no problem
last year passing tax reductions for the extremely wealthy which includes many
of themselves, too. The President signed that bill from which he, his family, and their businesses profited.
I would like to see teeth put in Federal legislative deadlines
requiring budgets funding be established, passed and signed by the President before
any of those responsible for their passage, and their staffs, can receive their
salaries each year.We, the people, should demand our legislators
pass such legislation -- NO BUDGET ... NO PAY!
Our leader’s poor judgment evidences no real comprehension
of how important timely receipt of a regular paycheck is to most citizens – how
their lives are impacted without that regular income.He has never known what life is like for everyday
people so is completely insensitive.
I’m reminded of one of the speakers at a memorial honoring
former President G. W. Bush, of whom I was not a major supporter, but I did have
some respect for him. This intimate
personal friend of the former President described what insight Bush said he had
acquired for the lives of ordinary people to which he had previously been much less aware.Bush came to realize he had been raised in
affluent circumstances with amenities he took for granted that ordinary people
did not have.This knowledge was becoming acquired as his
usual daily benefits ceased once he entered the military during WWII.
Bush has said he acquired increasing insight on this dichotomy
during a period of his military service when he was required to review and
censor for security purposes letters written by troops to their family members
and friends. He spoke of gaining awareness
he previously lacked about the everyday lives, needs, concerns, which would include
financial in some instances, of ordinary people that he previously had not had -- and how they differed from his own.He realized that the vast majority of Americans
did not have the benefits he had known from birth, or the given financial
security he had throughout his life.
We have a leader now whose attitudes, behaviors, actions and
past life give no indication that he has acquired such insight or ever known anything
but affluence from birth – has never had to encounter day-to-day living
challenges to budget affording basic needs dependent on receiving a regularly scheduled
paycheck. There has been little demonstration he is capable of being empathetic with others.
Keeping a roof over his head, putting food on the table, purchasing
clothes, paying for health care – not only for himself, but his children and
family as most citizens experience has been on an entirely different level far
above one of mere subsistence that necessitates budgeting from paycheck to paycheck. Having
fare for a train, bus, cab or buying gas and maintaining a vehicle to even get
to work has not been a necessity for him because his paycheck was suddenly
being withheld and he had no other funds or family to assist him.
His pronouncements of government workers endorsing his obstinance in which he refuses to support authorizing budget passage are unsubstantiated and
highly suspect.Who among them would
want to speak up in opposition given the leader's penchant for being vindictive toward most anyone whose views differ from his own? The leader’s
rhetoric for what he claims to be doing for our nation’s security is simply puffery
he wants to put forth as justifying his actions and to avoid what could and should
legitimately be done to prevent this situation.
California where I live is starting 2019 with a new
Governor. I hope his policies will
continue to keep our state in forward motion, maintain the reserve fund our previous Governor built for a rainy day, and not deplete it, insuring we stay within a realistic
budget. I have welcomed not having a
showboat Governor and hope our new Governor will be the same, unlike what we’re
subjected to at the federal level from the White House.
Term-limited retiring Jerry Brown has been California’s
longest serving governor who inherited a seriously indebted state.Despite our rainy-day fund reserve the public
pension funding continues to be an elephant in the room few speak loudly about,
but Brown’s other policies have been financially benefiting. He’s been a strong leader on environmental,
climate and health issues among other major matters.He’s also stirred controversy with promotion
of a bullet train and the monies that will require.How our incoming Governor Gavin Newsom addresses
that issue and others remains to be seen.
Earthquake Alert Warning Systemis finally operative in Los
Angeles County only – the first in the United States. Apps are available for iPhone and Androids.
You may read about the system at the United StatesGeological Survey site (USGS) here. You’ll
note on the site its operation and current uptodate dissemination of
information has been adversely impacted by our government’s failure to pass
funding in the current budget situation.
The earthquake warning may only be up to 20 seconds, depending upon the
quake epicenter’s distance from the signal’s recipient, but even a few seconds
can be time for some safety steps, such as a surgeon removing his knife, person getting off a ladder, stopping a car.We’re
told there may be false alarms and other imperfections.The
system is continuing to be developed and refined.
Locally, we have several new City Council members who I look
forward to providing our community new ideas and sound governance through
the coming year.
Our first rain in the new year with welcomed snow in the
mountains has arrived tonight as I write this.We’re still below water table levels considered to be the needed
average this time of year, but we do look forward to more of the wet stuff in
the weeks ahead to avoid drought conditions we’ve had for too many years.Unfortunately, some So Cal areas experience mud and
rock slides as a result of the devastating fires we had last year.Scenic Pacific Coast highway overlooking the
ocean is temporarily blocked for this reason as I write this.
I’ve previously shared here that I choose to have antenna TV
and have never had cable or satellite since living here.Access
to broadcast signals in the Los Angeles area provide me programming from all
the stations.The only problem I have is
when storms move off the coast eastward -- when they pass over the mountain top
where some of the TV stations towers are, the signals can be affected,
interfering with my reception.Often one
or more other station’s towers located elsewhere do allow me access to
their programs.Other times, depending
on the storm(s) I receive no stations, but this rarely occurs.Interestingly, through my Roku I am still able
to access Netflix, if I want their offerings with clear reception and also have my computer Internet, of
course.
"BERNARD HERRMANN THE TWILIGHT ZONE~ 1ST. SEASON
1959 - Main and End titles music composed and CONDUCTED by BERNARD HERRMANN
Original Soundtrack Recording Twilight Zone 40th Anniversary Edition"
This afternoon unable to find a movie on Netflix I cared to
view, I came across a favorite old but timeless classic TV series “Twilight
Zone”.Rod Serling’s stories and those
some others wrote have plots that resonate even today.
One of my favorites Serling wrote is “The Monsters Are Due On Maple Street” which aired in 1960’s first season.The focus in this program is on aliens and
how they can easily take over our world, neighborhood by neighborhood, by
manipulating everyday routine functions.We
see ordinary people gradually becoming paranoiac and panicking.
Narrator Serling’s closing has meaning for today:
“The tools of conquest do not necessarily
come with bombs and explosions and fallout. There are weapons that are simply
thoughts, attitudes, prejudices – to be found only in the minds of men.
For the record, prejudices can kill – and suspicion can destroy – and
a thoughtless frightened search for a scapegoat has a fallout all of its
own – for the children – and the children yet unborn. And the pity of
it is – that these things cannot be confined – to the Twilight Zone.”
“...more about the fear of terrorism...caused,
not by aliens, but...the government, specifically the United States Army,
experimenting on how small towns react to the fear of terrorism.In the end, the neighborhood takes out its
anger and frustration on a family” in their midst.
Forest Whitaker is the narrator who opens the program saying
the neighbors will soon discover the monsters they fear may already be among
them.
Whitaker’s closing narration seems apropos for our time:
“It isn't enough for a sole voice of reason to
exist. In this time of uncertainty, we are so sure that villains lurk around
every corner that we will create them ourselves if we can't find them –
for while fear may keep us vigilant, it's also fear that tears us apart –
a fear that sadly exists only too often – outside the Twilight Zone.”