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Thursday, July 02, 2026

EAGLETS FLEDGE . . . COUNTRY GOING TO HELL

 BIG BEAR BALD EAGLES  have been in national news for some time so I've pretty much ceased writing about them here except, thought I'd briefly recap this year's bird events.  The first 2 eggs were not hatched but a second batch of 2 eggs did.    The emerging eaglets subsequently named Sandy and Luna  fledged this past week.  If you don't know the bird lingo, that means they flew into the vast blue sky above us all for the very first time.  Previous years eagle posts here can be read in the archives.

Sandy was named after the recently deceased caring biologist who had been so supportive of bringing the endangered eagles to the world's attention.  She had welcomed giving me permission to share their stories here long before they gained so much international fame. 

 Sandy Steers was the longtime Executive Director of the nonprofit Friends of Big Bear Bald Eagles.  She made a significant impact  "...in protecting the local habitat and spearheading the famous 24/7 solar-powered eagle nest cameras." the Los Angeles Times reported.

Eaglet Sandy was accidentally knocked out of the nest when her brother, Luna, flew.  She fell  through the tree but Sandy caught on to a branch.  Eventually, she fledged from there, soaring through the sky. 

You may read all the particulars at the Friends of Big Bear Eagles site, see videos of those exciting scary events, their parent eagles, Jackie and Shadow, their older siblings, and live views from 2 cameras, one at the nest and another on the surrounding environment.    https://friendsofbigbearvalley.org/eagles/

Sibling sisters  Sunny and Gizmo  are the most recent previous eaglets from this pair sometimes seen flying in Big Bear skies above the lake.  They may still be observing their parents and learning how to safely catch fish swimming in the lake water below.  

HEAT WAVE IN AMERICA

"People often say that a country is going to hell.  And the summer of 1936 was certainly infernal."--  Geoff Williams writes in  National Geographic.   https://apple.news/AFECSug0uS3ayFAlnQtuA3A       

 This article may answer why my Mother never wanted me to wear shorts and seemed opposed to them.  I guess she was trying to protect me from any possible negative attitudes I might encounter from society's less than favorable attitude prevailing then toward a single divorced mother -- with children, too.   This point of view coupled with other adults attitudes conveyed to their children to avoid playing with those youth living in such a household.   Perhaps she thought it best to not risk subjecting me to any additional  discrimination or worse by allowing me to wear shorts.  Besides, she had deliberately had my smallpox vaccination's  skin-beauty-marring scar placed out of view on my leg rather than my arm where it would more likely be exposed.  All her planning possibly to no avail.

I was quite young then but I don't recall ever knowing about our culture's shorts attitude.                                                      "...discussions were happening all over the country, in backyards, parks, the workplace and even in church, where a young woman on LongIsland made headlines for being ejected by a priest  for not being appropriately covered up.  In Covington, Kentucky, police officers were told to cite any teenage girls or women dressed in shorts or halter tops for indecent exposure.  In Ann Arbor, Michigan, when a business owner allowed his male employees to wear shorts in the store, he confided to the Detroit Press that he was worried abut the public reaction and was relieved that nobody seemed to object." --  Williams writes.  

Given the times in which we live now, along with with the excessive heat being experienced in Europe, our own country and around the world, that quote from the National Geographic article caught my attention.  

Perhaps the article and book, The Summer of Death, all by Geoff Williams, will be of interest to you, too.



                                      
















Sunday, January 09, 2022

AGING CHILDREN EXPERIENCE HAPPINESS, COPE

A new year presents many unknowns.  Probably we'll all be well-advised to focus on living in the present, day-to-day, wise to do at any age, but especially in our older years.  Making future plans can be complicated given the circumstances of each of our own lives coupled with uncertainties created in recent years by the pandemic.

Traveling life's road probably many of us have taken special notice of the years when as youngsters we just couldn't wait until we were older.  Then, we reached each succeeding decade -- 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, etc.  I was aware of turning 30 but gave little thought to that change.  When I reached 40 years I recall taking a bit more notice.  When age 50 rolled around I thought of that age as being a half-way mark in my life, optimistically assuming I'd live at least until I was age 100.

Having reached that fifth decade, years numbers after that seemed hard for me to believe I was really that age since in my mind I didn't feel that old.  Certainly, age 65 was a marker year, but 70 years -- really?  After that I began to lose track as my age no longer seemed important.  So much so that this year my daughter called to my attention I was actually a year younger than what I had been saying I was.  Oh, well!

Once I had some experience with unexpected aches and pains, I did begin to think in terms of the fact my body probably was reflecting some of the wear and tear of living all those years even if my mind did not -- or at least I thought my mind was intact.  That's what all those whose minds have flitted about a bit think, too.  I understand, so maybe I'm not as sharp as I think I am.  I confess, somewhere along the line I did begin to find writing down important dates, other matters have become more necessary to insure I don't forget, but I keep challenging myself.

I began to notice news stories of a few individuals my age and older engaged in physical events I was now less able to perform -- running marathons, playing team basketball games, weightlifting (none of which I did before, anyway).  Some had not taken up those sports unti their older years, but not an option for me now.

I don't really embrace the idea older people should aspire to engaging in activities to which younger bodies are most able which seems to be what attracts media attention in our youth-oriented society.  Still the search by some for eternal life goes on though no other animals seem to be capable of living forever either.

What is fascinating to me is how we all age differently, a fact of which I'm reminded when I'm tempted to compare myself to others featured in the media engaging in amazing activities.  I don't fret about all that and instead focus on what I can do, what gives me joy and pleasure.  I think most, if not all the bloggers I've encountered here, seem to be leading generally happy lives through their aging, older years, doing much the same.

The pleasurable experience of living is often revealed in the writings of numerous older authors I've read, also in how so many of even my now mostly deceased family members and friends chose to live their lives.

"Songs to Aging Children Come" Song Cover

Written by Joni Mitchel in 1969; featured on her album "Clouds".                                                    (This recording is reported on YouTube site as being sung by M. A. Ludwig)

  

Noting the happiness of aging children I recently noticed is Katharine Esty, who surveyed some of her contemporaries in the retirement community where she lives.  I wholeheartedly agree with her blog's concluding findings:

"I learned that one's attitude is almost as important as one's circumstances.  I also saw possibilities for a whole new vision for old age, a vision far larger than eldercare or geriatrics."

"Eightysomethings" written by Katharine Esty, PhD -- Expert On Aging Well and Family Dynamics is a book described as "A Practical Guide to Letting Go, Aging Well, and Finding unexpected Happiness", though I have not read it.  She notes: 

"People in their eighties have not gotten much attention from the media.  Baby Boomers and GenXers -- the adult children of people my age -- get lots of attention, but not the cohort of people over eighty, even though this crowd is growing faster than any other older group."

Esty shares 10 Questions with her responses of interest to individuals and their adult children or others wanting to understand the aging experience.  One question refers to the five coping skills she learned "...most eightysomethings use when it comes to having unpleasant health issues."   She perceives   individuals as being either Deniers, Stoics, Complainers, Worriers, or Realists describing their behaviors.  

Sooner or later all ages who survive will become "eighty something" or maybe even older.

Your thoughts and attitude about ageing through the years are welcome whatever your current age.